"...one is only poor only if they choose to be," goes a line in Dolly Parton's Coat of Many Colours. Similarly, one is green about their roots only if they choose not to know. Like Dolly's rainbow coat, our societies are a true description of rich. Rich in cultural heritages. Heritages that at some point agree to promote peace, harmony and morality. One wonders why war never ends!
It is from these that the dos and don't s of a community are drawn though upholding their values is more of a choice than an obligation today. Modernization!
With keen interest, I cultivate into this seemingly outdated but in reality, BIG piece in normalizing society from an African point of view. Thanks to my observational prowess.
One teacher in my primary school used to say, "If you find a bird that quacks like a duck,walks like a duck and eats like a duck, then that's a duck." This maps identity to behavior.
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| A Muganda lady in traditional wear |
Most cultures emphasize the close linkage among physical appearance, clothing, body adornment, language usage and mannerism. Today many especially the young generation prefer to quack like a duck, walk like a crested crane and eat like a pigeon. What a mess!
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| Acholi girls |
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| A Kiganda traditional dance |
Thus there is reason to believe that those who are not sufficiently exposed to their cultural norms either by sheer choice or ignorance miss a thing or two about mannerism and morality in general.
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| Indecent posture a sign of moral decay. This is a result of not observing cultural norms |
In Masabaland, for instance, cultural circumcision was originally an avenue for teaching good to the localities. It came with a series of ceremonies pointing towards uniting families, enriching morals and language, remembering fallen heroes, settling disputes and preparing the candidate (umusinde) to face and overcome the challenges of being a man, a husband and father. Not forgetting that one was only pronounced ready for initiation after they exhibited a high sense of maturity and responsibility. Otherwise, they were told to wait.
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| A cultural leader gives words of wisdom to imbalu candidates |
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| This Asian man could not help doing it the Bamasaba way |
Thus to be a family man in this part of the world, tradition ensured that one was prepared both prior to and post initiation to take on the challenges. It is sad to note that much as the "cutting" continues, many core values of its original setup are often bypassed. Its evident that we are ignoring the norms that have from time memorial been pillars to survival of our societies.
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| Candidates (basinde) in drills prior to initiation |
Recently, I attended a party for a tribal association around my campus and to my surprise, English was used for the public address. Much as I understood the concern that it was for our (who never understood their language) good, I never shared it. My argument like anyone else's would be was that identity must been given first priority. It was not long before another guest pointed out that their language was on the verge of dying out as its own people avoided it many a time.
At that rate, we can predict loss of a whole heritage in that language "K". So what will their descendants speak?
Of course we can not deny the fact that some practices are far below standard from a human perspective. The unpopular Female Genital Mutilation and human sacrifice are barbaric injustices that surely need not have room under the sun. Some have far-fetching benefits but with inclusions that don't meet the social, economic and health status demands of modern society.
However these should and must not be an excuse to run away from the very norms that have for long streamlined survival of society rather act as boundaries to which we should not touch as we modify our cultures.
It is true that a good community is defined by history, culture and tradition. Therefore if only we, our friends plus their friends embraced the good in our cultures, I believe the clergies and imams would have a reason to cut their summons short.
LONG LIVE THE LAND OF MY CULTURE!!! LONG LIVE THE CULTURE OF MY LAND!!!
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| Acholi youth dance Larakaraka |
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| A Muganda man enjoys playing a traditional instrument. Through such events, mannerism is taught to society |
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| Basinde preparing for circumcision. Lots of advice is meant to be given during these drills. |